Desperately Seeking Knee High Boots!

I love boots and I REALLY want a pair of knee high boots.  I see them everywhere, in my Burning Man community and everyday in downtown San Francisco.  But I am a funny girl, I actually get overwhelmed if I have on clothes that are too heavy or dense.  So I am not sure knee high boots will even work for me or that I could wear them for an entire day.

You can wear boots year round in San Francisco because the average temperature is 64 degrees, thus they are a fashion basic. A couple of months ago I popped into my local Torrid store and they had boots that fit but they were huge in the ankle. I have fat calves, smallish ankles, bummer ;(.

So I kept looking, and then Jessica Kane posted a note about these British, wide calf boots.  Let’s see, I want a low heel, knee high, small ankle, black, and their Duo Malmo seems to come pretty close, and has a squarish toe so that is a plus, but they are pricey at $220 US. They are gorgeous but the reviews indicate that they too may have wide ankles, but the bigger issue is that my husband and I have a deal at our house that I will not order boots by mail, because in the 20 years we have been together I have never been successful.  I bet I have sent back 10 pairs of boots.  And if I did have to return them I am sure it would be pricey, the site says…”Please note that the cost of returning goods to DUO is borne by you“.

So what do you think, should I give them a go, talk my husband into giving me a dispensation to order one more pair of boots by mail, or pass and just love the boots I have?…affinity

Cropped Jeans Jacket – Does It Fit?

 Jacket: Domino Dollhouse Size 4X

Red Cami: Avenue and DIY (Do It Yourself) Size 26-28

Bracelets: Torrid

I am showing this short jacket with the red t-shirt so that you can see how short this cute jeans jacket is.  The t-shirt is a plain red cami, that I have altered by sewing on the design from my Burning Man camp. I have about 100 shirts made each summer for my camp but since they do not carry my size I find a cami the same color and I sew on my camp logo. I love this jacket but the 4X will not button so I will not be keeping it, but isn’t it precious.  My order arrived with this sweet little button and I just had to show you…affinity

photo: Carol Squires

DKNY Jeans Tiered Skirt – How Does It Fit?

I bought this Black Tiered Skirt from DKNY Jeans on sale in a size 26-28.  The “Jeans” line appears to have one size larger than the DKNYC line, but it is actually about the same size, a very generous 4X, in my opinion.  I think I am going to cut one tier off because it is a little long the way it is and it will have more flow and swish a layer shorter.  I will put up a photo when I put together an outfit.  And yes it is on sale…affinity

J4 Leather Jackets – How do they Fit?


I bought a 5X jacket on Ebay from Treasure Trove Trading Post.  I was going to my 44th Palm Springs High School reunion and of course I wanted something new.  I received an email saying they did not have the jacket in stock but they would order it. I responded with the date that I needed it and my measurements. No problem, they replied, I would have it timely and I was their standard 5X.

I received the jacket a couple of weeks after the reunion and it did not even begin to fit. When I tried to return it the Ebay store told me to contact the maker, and the maker’s email and voicemail were full. FASHION FAILURE

Casual Friday

On Fridays, like all of you, I dress a little more casually.  This is one of my favorite outfits.  It just feels like who I am.

Sweater: Torrid, 4X, it is kind of a shrug and it fits just above my waist

Cami: Avenue, size 26-28

Belt: Bob’s Belts, Size 50 – This is the largest one he makes in this 1.5 inch width and I have a couple of holes left on the belt so someone a little larger than a 4X might be able to wear it

Bracelets: Torrid – I love that they are large enough to go over my hand.  This is one set of bangles with the larger ones on one arm and the smaller ones on the other arm.

Jeans: Tripp, Size 28 (short) from Torrid

Love Squared – How Does it Fit?

Well, while on this Macy’s sale shopping binge I also tried a couple of Love Squared dresses, that although they were 3Xs, I did not realize that they were junior plus sizes, and unlikely to be generously cut.  Neither of them even came close to fitting, I could not even get them on my size 4x body.  But aren’t they fabulous, and if you are a 2x or 3x and like to be a little wild you should be on the lookout for them…affinity

Apple Bottoms – How Do They Fit?

On my Macy’s Shopping spree I fell in love with this dress I thought I would try a 3X, but   I had not noticed it was a junior plus size, which as you know, usually run small.  And yes it was a little too small for me as I am a pretty standard 4X, and the back was completely open, cute, but…..  Had to return it and that made me very sad.  But I may have to try another style (love the pink striped maxi), what do you think?..affinity
Apple Bottoms at Dr. Jays

DKNYC Print Sequin Dress – How does it fit?

I found this fabulous, beautifully made, and much more attractive than in the photo, dress in several locations on the web on sale for various amounts.  I purchased it from Macy’s in a 3X (I usually wear a 4X) .  I loved it but it was a little large in the arms and would have needed some tailoring.  But I will keep my eye out for DKNYC from now on.  Their clothes are fun, stylish, they are sized about a size larger and they must make an abundance of them because they seem to go on sale… affinity 

So, while writing this post, I fell back in love with this dress and I re-ordered it from Bloomingdales (still on sale).   
Bloomingdale’s 1X – 3X

Torrid Leggings – How do they fit?

I am really attracted to leggings these days.  Probably because I am wearing more skirts than I have in a long time.  I don’t usually buy leggings at Torrid because  their standard size 3/4 does not fit me, and up until recently, I thought that was the only size they made.  But I fell in love with these striped lace leggings because they would look fabulous with one of my skirts.  Guess What!  The size 4 is WAY too big. So big that I am going to send them back and get a size 3.  So if you have ever wanted to try Torrid Leggings and thought they would be too small this is the moment.  Since I am a size 26-28 and the Size 4 is too big on me I bet that they would fit a Size 30-32.  I know it is difficult to find fun trendy leggings in large sizes so this is the moment, before they go away.  I am going to order 2 pairs right now.

The Poncho is Back

I have noticed the poncho everywhere lately.  In fashion blogs, on Project Runway and even on 24 Hour Catwalk.  I have been wanting to check out IGIGI since they are local to San Francisco, my home.  I wear a size 26 -28 and it is a perfect fit, the belt is on the last rung but another one could be punched if you needed it.  I have some other IGIGI purchases I love but I will leave those for another day…affinity

Poncho: IGIGI – Size 26-28
TurtleNeck: L.L. Bean Size 3X
Pants: Avenue – Size 28 petite